tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1267525910799598520.post5065132135684211445..comments2023-04-19T15:57:34.020-04:00Comments on Sad and Chara: Down the road...Unknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger65125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1267525910799598520.post-69396088254267812462011-02-23T12:35:15.938-05:002011-02-23T12:35:15.938-05:00It does get better. My aunt (who lost a child) to...It does get better. My aunt (who lost a child) told me after I lost mine that it got better and I just could not believe it could be true. God/time heals all wounds. It's a rough road to have to travel...I will not lie. Psalm 91:4 He will cover you with his feathers. He will shelter you with his wings. His faithful promises are your armor and protection...envision yourself there...under his feathers. I pray rest for your weary mind and peace for your soul.Andreahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08258469740065962583noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1267525910799598520.post-18112416836162529082011-02-22T09:39:54.006-05:002011-02-22T09:39:54.006-05:00Dear Chad,
I do not know you or your family, same...Dear Chad, <br />I do not know you or your family, same as many that have been following and praying with you. However I just wanted to tell you two things. 1.) You have probably heard this many many times by now, but I am terribly sorry and saddened for you and I will continue to pray for your healing. 2.) This may seem selfish, and however I have (thankfully) never needed to cope with anything close to what you have, in a way I look forward to your posting's because for me, they are both inspirational and eye oppening. I am a mother myself and this has made me treasure every moment I have even more, and altho I consider my self a faithfull person, reading your thoughts and letters has inspired me to be a better servant to God. If you can cope and still have half the loyal faith you seem to have, it puts most of us others to shame. Again I am so sorry for your losses, but thankyou for your inspiration.angiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07523180974685853131noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1267525910799598520.post-41908846369768797952011-02-20T15:39:01.537-05:002011-02-20T15:39:01.537-05:00Chad, I don't know you well, though you grew u...Chad, I don't know you well, though you grew up down the street from us. Did not try to speak to you at the visitation, but want you to know that I've been praying for you and your family daily, and will continue. When our daughter died, I started a list of people who have lost a child--you are on it now. It's been almost 2 years, still painful, but bearable. We are part of a great community of suffering around the world. Here is how I see your situation: Sara was ready for Heaven. Miranda has known nothing but joy in her life, and never will know such pain as you are feeling. You are being tested, and you are passing the test. You are becoming wiser and stronger for some deeper ministry God has ahead for you. You may not have the joy of holding your loved ones, but you will have the eternal joy of "bringing many sons to glory." Meanwhile, the SAFMC does have the Griefshare program, and I found it helpful. Praying for you daily, and I promise to continue for years to come.Unknownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17050092664249428943noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1267525910799598520.post-11437868777503504302011-02-20T12:21:12.476-05:002011-02-20T12:21:12.476-05:00Chad,
my heart continues to break for you. As I re...Chad,<br />my heart continues to break for you. As I read your words I find myself weeping for a family that I don't even know. But my heart is moved to pray for you in this season of grieving. My husband, children and I pray for a peace to cover you that can only come from our Savior... the same one that holds both Sara and Miranda right now. I am not sad for them, they are together with Jesus, fully whole and complete. I am however heartbroken for you, the one that is left behind. I can only continue to pray that The Lord gives you strength to make it through another day.<br /><br />Blessings to you Chad,<br />Katie and familyjkseevershttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17302007247636602102noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1267525910799598520.post-1325674299478081212011-02-19T16:35:25.719-05:002011-02-19T16:35:25.719-05:00Dear Chad
I am so incredibly sorry for your loss....Dear Chad<br /><br />I am so incredibly sorry for your loss. There is little that I can add to this outpouring of love prayer and support except to say that I echo them. As one of your brothers in Christ I grieve with you and your family. <br /><br />I pray that God will give you the stregnth to continue chronicling your story. Reading it will help other men who have shared a similar experience.<br /><br />May God continue to comfort you.<br />-KevinFrench Kevinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12725491313862664885noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1267525910799598520.post-14496672457402957602011-02-19T14:58:55.511-05:002011-02-19T14:58:55.511-05:00Chad,
I was the one who swapped your phone at App...Chad,<br /><br />I was the one who swapped your phone at Apple yesterday...<br /><br />Anyway, you were heavy on my mind the rest of the afternoon with very similar thoughts as everyone else that has been commenting on this blog. And when I realized who you were yesterday, I felt quite a pang of pain for everything you've been through.<br /><br />This probably sounds corny, etc...but I have always strongly believed that those who live with the Holy Spirit inside us are connected to each other in a very unique way. I think, yesterday, the pain I felt was not only natural human instinct - but a speck of the pain that God feels for you.<br /><br />I heard of your car accident from a friend at NorthRidge Church the day after it happened, and have been following your posts because, more than anything, I know God wanted to open my own eyes. I've been pretty self-pitying for a while. Ungrateful. Ignoring God. Angry at Him for so much. But then I see what you've gone through - and I'm able to understand how God loves us, and though we are put through so much pain, He feels our pain tenfold.<br /><br />I know I have absolutely no ability to console you, and I needn't repeat what the others have already said. I just want you to know that I think that (though I know every person is so important in God's eyes) you, Chad, are already, and are going to continue to be someone very important in God's plan. Just as your wife and daughter were. I wish there was more I could do aside from continuing to pray, but I understand there isn't, so praying - of which I haven't done in months - is something I plan to continue to do for you.<br /><br />Also, I'm sure you already know the song - but in case you don't and you get a chance, listen to "How He Loves Us" by John Mark McMillan.<br /><br />-MegUnknownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00234474584263310116noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1267525910799598520.post-62217151711684957652011-02-19T14:15:15.387-05:002011-02-19T14:15:15.387-05:00Chad,
Have you ever heard of or read the book &qu...Chad, <br />Have you ever heard of or read the book "The Shack." Please look into it, reading your last post about understanding the will of God, and in your asking "why?" made me instantly think how this book I just recently finished could have a great impact on your life. I strongly encourage you to read it!<br />~LindseyAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1267525910799598520.post-13766016867682390892011-02-19T12:06:10.205-05:002011-02-19T12:06:10.205-05:00Chad - You probably don't remember me from SAC...Chad - You probably don't remember me from SAC (that's okay). But I remember you and your verve for life. <br />I also remember watching Sara, although we were never close (we had some classes together). As I walked through depression and anxiety allowing my feelings to rule me life, I looked at her and wished for the kind of peace and calm she lived.<br />Thank you for reminding me of that part of her. And for challenging us all to be kind. <br />My prayers are with you as you grieve.Beth Burns Nagelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13473123664353175102noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1267525910799598520.post-14828841934866770682011-02-18T21:10:42.858-05:002011-02-18T21:10:42.858-05:00Chad, Been praying for awhile now, as I heard of ...Chad, Been praying for awhile now, as I heard of your family through a friend on facebook...I won't say I understand what you are feeling because every loss is personal, but I do understand grief. My mother died, not suddenly, but quickly, of cancer in 1997. Every day is a struggle, and I still get angry. But the one thing I learned, and it appears you are experiencing, is grief can't be avoided. I waited to long to grieve for my mother, and had to go through alot of it alone. Please allow yourself to feel, hurt, cry, get mad...and continue to lean on others - that support is Christ on earth carrying you. <br /><br />Second, your story has changed my life as well. I won't go into details, and if you choose at a future date you can read my blog on here which explains it more...but your story saved my daughter's life. Perhaps not physically, but we have been struggling for most of her 5 years with behavior problems and bonding - mostly from being a single mom. I had all but given up hope that this life was chosen for me or my daughter, but God spoke to me as I prayed to you. We still struggle, but knowing the alternative has strengthened me as a parent, your example of faith and reliance on God has helped me as a parent. Your blog, even before the accident, touched me and helped me to focus on the great parts of being a parent. I am not thankful for your loss or pain in any way, but I am thankful I was able to read and hear your story. Praying everyday for you and your family! Heidi WhiteKareena's Mamahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17607171237117681550noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1267525910799598520.post-24198571392527187342011-02-18T18:53:26.251-05:002011-02-18T18:53:26.251-05:00I do not know you but your story has inspired me. ...I do not know you but your story has inspired me. There are no words I can say that will bring back your wife and Miranda. <br /><br />Please know that God does not wish this on people. It is Satan that causes death, and thats why Jesus died for us, to give eternal life. Keep your head up because some day you will see them again. At least you can look forward to that.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1267525910799598520.post-83116760901321695852011-02-18T18:10:48.373-05:002011-02-18T18:10:48.373-05:00I think of you, Sarah and Miranda often and am pra...I think of you, Sarah and Miranda often and am praying for you. I lost my baby in June 2010 and I know that it does worse before it gets better. It is hard when there are no distractions and the grief knocks you down into the dark pit repeatedly. Eventually you will start to climb out and will stay out for longer periods. It will take a long time though and it will be hard. You aren't alone, but I know that that brings more comfort sometimes than other times. Sometimes there just is no comfort and the pain is horrible and raw and you think it will never end. Sending you hugs.Danahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12860497122946287983noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1267525910799598520.post-84499626970582666782011-02-18T14:17:06.281-05:002011-02-18T14:17:06.281-05:00Chad, Like everyone else-I truly wish I could wrap...Chad, Like everyone else-I truly wish I could wrap my heart around your pain, and take it away. There is not a day that has gone by, that I do not think of you and what you have already faced- with such profound dignity, grace and appreciation. Your testimony and witnessing to all who read your words have inspired so many people to become better Christians, to put more trust in Him and his plan. I can't explain that day, or the three days after...and I feel certain that there are some dark days ahead for you and your family. But I do know this,He never left your girls' sides, He never left your side, and He will continue to carry you through this journey, and eventually, help the pain lessen. Stay with Him Chad, ask all the questions you need, He will help you find at least some of the answers. BIG Hugs and prayers, MellissaMellissahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15659438279737677245noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1267525910799598520.post-4667252187179759922011-02-18T12:54:58.831-05:002011-02-18T12:54:58.831-05:00Chad I dont know you, but I heard about your loss ...Chad I dont know you, but I heard about your loss thru a friend. Just know that every night, I lift you in prayer, and will continue to do so until God tells me to stop. I know all the business after the funeral kept you occupied, and I know that the hard times are going to be when you have to stop. So that is my prayer for you. That in the quiet times, you can cling to God and know that He loves you and is holding on to you for dear life. I have read your posts here and you are a very inspiring man. I loved the way you said you were clinging to The Rock with your fingertips. I keep praying that God strengthen your fingertips, and your hands and arms. I ask that He help you get to the top of the hill and find rest in His arms and love. I will continue to pray for you Chad.<br /> with love in Christ,<br /> Missie GrahamUnknownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12687769524604392960noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1267525910799598520.post-73340284146158241942011-02-18T12:26:47.814-05:002011-02-18T12:26:47.814-05:00Dear Chad,
I didn't know that comments could b...Dear Chad,<br />I didn't know that comments could be left on here until just now. Have been praying, I have been in awe of how much The LORD has had me crying out on your behalf. The song left before this ...may it be a great encouragement to you ...you will rise (with Him) ~~I will write more when words come ...for now, just wanted you to know of more prayer coming from Indiana. Num.6:24-26; Rom.15:13; Heb.13:20-21; Jude 24-25; Eph.3:14-21DLhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00779582254380904641noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1267525910799598520.post-30493401444166834622011-02-18T11:17:58.516-05:002011-02-18T11:17:58.516-05:00You have been on my heart since I heard of your st...You have been on my heart since I heard of your story. I cannot imagine your pain, not even begin to comprehend it. All I can offer is prayers for you in your sorrow. <br /><br />I just went back to read a bit of your story before tragedy hit, and it made the depths of this sorrow even more real to me in comprehension. Reading your excitement to know of another baby joining your family as a cousin took me straight back to being pregnant with my own son and hearing the news of my sister in laws pregnancy. I was always jealous of my cousins that lived near to each other as I only saw mine a few times a year and I was so so excited to have a cousin for my little guy nearby. To have all of those little joys just disappear so quickly, I cannot even comprehend your sorrow or pretend to. But, I can tell you, I'll be on my knees in prayer for you today. <br /><br />MelissaMelissahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15894514273411083862noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1267525910799598520.post-31760335701263006642011-02-18T02:21:47.805-05:002011-02-18T02:21:47.805-05:00Just learned what happened from PowerSchool Data S...Just learned what happened from PowerSchool Data Solution website. Lost my father last year, I share the pain of losing someone you love and care so much with you. You will never be able to forget the sad memories and the pain. It will forever be with you. But what you have to know, instead of constantly grieving, you need to move on with your life. Your wife and daughter would not want to see you wasting your life by grieving of them. It's more than enough to have two beautiful souls died. Don't let the Chad within you to die too. I know it's easier said than done, but eventually time heals. Once you accepted what happened, it's much easier. Please accept my condolences. Thinking of you, Sara, Miranda and all your family.sleeplessinsingaporehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16689607487393104088noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1267525910799598520.post-86530511628607423632011-02-18T02:17:17.800-05:002011-02-18T02:17:17.800-05:00Chad,
I can not even begin to imagine how you fee...Chad,<br /><br />I can not even begin to imagine how you feel & the pain you're going through. All I can say is, I'm so very sorry. You will always remain in my prayers. <br /><br />Suzette, <br />Tuscaloosa, ALUnknownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03126284725217646147noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1267525910799598520.post-44179590201791270052011-02-18T01:49:54.860-05:002011-02-18T01:49:54.860-05:00Hi Chad,
Words cannot express the sorrow I feel f...Hi Chad, <br />Words cannot express the sorrow I feel for you. I am so saddened by the events and understand your desire to have had this experience pass you by. We do not understand why God allows such circumstances such as these happen. We just have to have the faith that if He has allowed it then He will guide us through. Know that all that love you have in you, he has more than that for you. He will stand by you, hold you, and yes, I believe cry with you. God bless you Chad.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1267525910799598520.post-70981078632951883772011-02-18T00:18:41.883-05:002011-02-18T00:18:41.883-05:00Chad, I don't know you or your family, but I h...Chad, I don't know you or your family, but I have been praying for you every day since I heard about your heartbreaking tragedy. Please know that you will continue to be in my family's prayers.Stefhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08209282795333033512noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1267525910799598520.post-77521964016213601752011-02-17T23:56:40.787-05:002011-02-17T23:56:40.787-05:00Chad,
Thinking of you in the dark & lonely ho...Chad,<br /><br />Thinking of you in the dark & lonely hours, and reminded of Moses in Exodus 17.... When the Israelites were being attacked by the Amalekites, Moses went to the top of the mountain with Aaron & Hur. As long as he held up his arms, the Israelites were winning. But when he lowered his arms, they would lose. Moses was so tired. So Aaron & Hur held up his arms for him. (Exodus 17: 8-13)<br /><br />My prayer for you is that you have others in your life who will help hold up your arms when you are too tired. When you don't have even the strength to have faith, that you can borrow some of theirs. <br /><br />Though your blog was never intended for this purpose, through your suffering, you have given others a glimpse as to who you are, and 'whose' you are. Thank you for sharing your journey. I will continue to pray for you, whether you choose to continue the journey in public, or in private.<br /><br />Praying for the peace and comfort that only God can provide.<br /><br />Jill, IndianaJill Vardamanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13946691896375197406noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1267525910799598520.post-39648784940714721532011-02-17T21:28:53.468-05:002011-02-17T21:28:53.468-05:00Praying - and asking others to pray...it's all...Praying - and asking others to pray...it's all I know to do...dkhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03429690989722556134noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1267525910799598520.post-88022315091621621742011-02-17T21:27:05.901-05:002011-02-17T21:27:05.901-05:00Sometimes God's plan does not make sense. It ...Sometimes God's plan does not make sense. It may later on down the road, but right now you are lost in grief. The anger and questioning God may come later. I don't think your heart ever gets over the loss, but it does get easier. I think we deal with grief as it comes because dealing with it all at once is just too much to handle. Try to keep yourself busy and lean on your friends and family. That will help. I cannot imagine what you must be going through, but know that people are still praying for God to give you the strengh and courage to handle this. Hang in there. You have two very special angels looking down on you. It is okay to grieve, but don't give up. Your angels would not want you to do that. God bless.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1267525910799598520.post-37878514037249305462011-02-17T20:58:50.962-05:002011-02-17T20:58:50.962-05:00Jesus has overcome
And the grave is overwhelmed
Th...Jesus has overcome<br />And the grave is overwhelmed<br />The victory is won<br />He is risen from the dead.<br /><br />And I will rise when he calls my name<br />No more sorrow, no more pain<br />I will rise on eagle's wings<br />Before my God fall on my knees<br />And rise, I will rise...<br /><br />Praying for you every night. You are on my heart.<br /><br />KrisAunt Krishttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11337025857262995746noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1267525910799598520.post-15318731407970636222011-02-17T19:47:13.422-05:002011-02-17T19:47:13.422-05:00I wish I could say-"It will get better soon&q...I wish I could say-"It will get better soon"---but I know it doesn't. It truly does last forever!! However, it changes with time. I know because on my 30th birthday I watched my husband, bestfriend, soulmate, father of my children, die after several days in a coma. At 30 I was a widow with a 3 year old and a 5 year old. I can tell you several things.<br />1. People mean well--but--they say the dumbest things!I learned to smile and nod, but go somewhere else in my mind. I would tell myself "They can say that because they have never experienced this kind of pain and lost." I learned to be glad for them.<br />2. God may never answer the "Why?" but He doesn't mind you asking..over...and over...and over again! He just wants you to choose to trust Him anyway!(Over and over and over again)<br />3. God can handle your anger! It will not drive Him away! It will only cause Him to pull you up closer to His heart.He truly loves you more than you can imagine!<br />Please know you are in our thoughts and prayers!Cindyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06108825679164145350noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1267525910799598520.post-11583104837005283022011-02-17T19:39:35.623-05:002011-02-17T19:39:35.623-05:00Chad,
I only hope you are able to continue to wr...Chad, <br /><br />I only hope you are able to continue to write, and possibly like was recommended, since your words are so graceful and eloquent, maybe you can write a book with this journey you are on. It is most amazing, and so many people are inspired by you, and amazed at your creativeness and depth in what you put out with your fingers to the world. So many of us are thinking of you on a daily basis, I started to follow you on Facebook, right after the accident, and prayed and stayed up nearly all night when they took Miranda off life support, hoping to see God's miracle that never came. I have not experienced anything so tragic, but having a death in my family (my dad - in 2008) I found my faith tested, questioned, and reconsidered. I hope some miracles can be provided to you. I will pray for you every single day, and follow you as long as you allow us to. Bless your soul, and Sara and Miranda's, too.Stacey Lynnhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00934145910171156078noreply@blogger.com